Tis the season still for holiday get-togethers and with many larger group parties come toasts.
Whether you’re raising a glass at a winter wedding or saying a few words at a New Year’s Eve soiree, here are 10 tips from Toastmasters International on how to make your speech ring true.
- Do identify yourself. Although you may be surrounded by friends and family, it’s customary to provide a brief explanation of who you are before beginning the toast.
- Don’t make the speech about you. Just because you’re the one speaking, doesn’t mean it’s an opportunity to talk about yourself.
- Do toast the host. Show your gratitude at the event by thanking the host during your speech.
- Don’t drink too much alcohol before speaking. You’ll want to be in top form when delivering the toast.
- Do use humor. Jokes and funny anecdotes are acceptable as long as they’re positive and not offensive.
- Don’t use inappropriate language. Avoid using profanity and telling potentially embarrassing stories.
- Do practice. Rehearse your message in front of an audience prior to the holiday.
- Don’t apologize. If you make a mistake, there’s no need to say you’re sorry. Pick up where you left off and keep going.
- Do raise your glass. At the end of the toast, stand; lift your glass by the stem and say, “I’d like to propose a toast.” Pause to allow guests to shift their attention toward you and give them time to lift their glasses. Be sure to lower your glass to about waist height.
- Don’t talk too much. A toast should last no longer than three minutes.